Women are attracted to many masculine behaviors and personality traits, and you probably know more than a few of them. Strength, confidence, humor, fun – all of these things are great motivators when it comes to making a girl fall for you. Still, nothing returns the attraction faster than the king of all sticky thrills: jealousy. Making your ex girlfriend jealous is always the quickest way to make her run back to you.
Well, talking about it is one thing, but how do you do it? And more particularly, how do you make her jealous if she’s the one who broke up with you?
Actually, there are many methods to renew your ex’s interest in you, and jealousy is just one of them. We’ll focus on that for now, because it works if she broke up with you due to lack of interest, excessive fighting, to date someone else, or for any other reason you can think of. Creating the green monster of jealousy in her heart is the fastest way to reconciliation.
Get over it… yesterday
Perhaps the most important piece of advice you can take after a breakup is not to spiral downward into depression because of what happened. Hopelessness and despair are two of the least attractive traits when it comes to getting your girlfriend to accept you, so dump them as quickly as possible. No one is coming to any pity party you plan to throw, especially your ex. Embrace it, clear your mind, and focus on moving forward. Your future includes a long-term relationship with your ex-girlfriend. Not your past.
Look Good – Feel Good
Do you think your girlfriend found you attractive before? Wait until the next time she sees you. She goes to the gym and works hard: she lifts weights, does cardio, tones up and gets in shape. She starts running, so you can work on your tan at the same time. And when she loses a few kilos? Head over to shopping for some fancy new clothes. All of these things will not only help you feel better emotionally (exercise is a great stress reliever), but they will also help you look better. When you look and feel better, you will inevitably act better, become more outgoing, confident, and self-assured. All of these traits will make you infinitely more attractive than if you were sitting at home alone, waiting for the phone to ring. Get in shape so that when you reconnect with your ex girlfriend, her jaw hits the floor.
Think positive – stay motivated and active
The golden rule after a breakup: let optimism be your best friend. By surrounding yourself with all the good things, the flow of positive energy will spread like wildfire to everyone around you. The people you see, talk to, and hang out with will enjoy your company and say only good things about you. Your ex girlfriend will find out about the person you have become and she will be completely taken aback by how quickly you got over the break up. When she starts looking around her, she will see a guy who is never negative and is always doing something. This is exactly the type of guy she’s attracted to, which will make her wonder why he ended things in the first place.
Start seeing other people
One of the best ways to make your ex girlfriend jealous? Show him that you’ve moved on. Yes, you want her back, and no, you’re not looking for a serious relationship right now…but dating is one of the best ways to let your ex know that you’re having a great time without her. No girl wants to see her ex-boyfriend dating someone else, at least not so soon after the breakup. It’s especially bad for your ex if she hasn’t moved on yet; she will make her feel a bit like a failure, which will make her wonder again if she made the right decision in breaking up with you. You have fun and she worries about losing you forever. What if you meet someone you really like? Even better.