Mom, dad, older sisters and brothers have a responsibility to protect potential young Lolita.
Webster defines: ‘Lolita’ … precociously seductive girl. ‘Precocious’ … exceptionally early in development; intelligent beyond his years; advanced, advanced, developed, premature; mature. ‘Seductive’ … attractive; seductive; fascinating; captivating; drawing, lovely; fascinating, magnetic; siren; desirable; Mouth watering.
Girls, especially cute or pretty girls, at age eight will begin to realize that they can elicit a response from others, especially men, with a special little smile or laugh. He soon realizes that even dad, older brother and family friends give him a special kiss on the nose and a strong hug, while running their fingers through his hair.
Every month and year, as you get older, you become more aware of your ability to get more and more attention from more and more men. Most likely, it is not your desire to seduce every man that you meet, but you probably realize that you are developing the ability to do so.
It is not uncommon for eight-year-old girls to show an interest in sex. They watch teens and adults kiss and touch and realize that there is a reason why they do it. Young girls will want to imitate older girls. Young girls may want to see a naked man and will knowingly go into the bathroom or toilet to achieve it. This can result in a response to swap a look for a look and so on.
At twelve years old, girls realize that their bodies have changed and that boys and older men notice it too. It is part of human nature (female nature) to enjoy the looks and expressions of men as they try to see more and more. All girls are aware of their ability to be attractive and captivating, even to their parents and siblings.
They soon learn, perhaps faster from television, that they can do little things to be even more desirable and stimulate quicker responses from the observer.
Perhaps on a hot sunny day she could deliberately act provocative while sucking on a lollipop while lying on the grass near the lawn chair where Daddy is sitting. Naturally, her bare feet face Daddy and she wears a loose, slim dress that falls close to her hips as she lifts one leg over the other knee.
Maybe later in the day she makes sure she’s wearing this slim dress when her brother walks by while she’s standing under the garden sprinkler, laughing and slowly leaning back.
A few days later, you might notice that your uncle was enjoying the shade under a tree near the fabric line. She is sure that her uncle finds her attractive and that he touches her politely whenever he gets the chance. She deliberately steps over his outstretched legs as she walks toward the house. She’s not surprised when he grabs her and throws her on the ground next to him and starts tickling her ribs.
Later in the evening, she wants her uncle to tickle her again. After Mom and Dad go to bed, she quietly goes from her upstairs room to his. His uncle is sitting at his desk in boxer shorts. He immediately reaches for her jeans, but she quickly grabs them and holds them behind her. She isn’t surprised when he jokingly pretends to take them off … and is soon tickling her ribs.
The next morning, she brings him breakfast when Mom asks for it. She places the tray on the nightstand and doesn’t resist when he sits down and pulls her to him and again tickles her ribs.
A week later, his brother returns home after working out at the gym. The young sister and her friend are sitting on the porch laughing and laughing out loud. “What’s so funny, sister?” He asks. Sally wants me to ask her if she wants to play doctor and nurse. “She answers.” I wouldn’t feel safe with two nurses, “she jokes as she heads to her room.
The next morning, after Dad goes to work, she, Mom, and brother are having breakfast together. When Mom goes to the kitchen for more cookies, the sister smiles and says quietly, “Doc, Mom and Dad won’t be home until very late tonight.” They both smile at each other.
‘All girls, of all ages, have the potential to be Lolita. It is the responsibility of caring and effective parents to understand human nature and to believe and accept the fact that all children of all ages are sexually curious about all areas of sex. This is definitely the time to teach Effective Sex Education (including “Sex Education Tips for Teens”. It is the responsibility of parents to always be vigilant and teach effective sex education. Just as the masturbation of girls and boys should never be condemned , teaching girls how to safely handle their Lolita urges is a must … even in Christian homes
Parents and potential Lolita have a joint responsibility to talk frequently about sexual issues to avoid mistakes in the future.