“Energetic orgasms can be an extremely spiritual experience, giving you a feeling of the forces of creation running through you, a feeling of going beyond the body / mind, reminding you of who you are beyond your everyday reality …” – Annie Sprinkle, How to Have Energetic Orgasms
The brain is an amazing organ. In fact, the brain could be called the largest “sex” organ. Why? Because orgasm begins in the brain that controls the release of chemicals that trigger arousal, creating physical changes in the body that prepare us for sexual pleasure and make orgasm possible. If the brain is not aroused, it cannot process sexual stimulation, so the genitals will not be aroused either. No orgasm.
Even more surprising, some women can orgasm just by thinking about it. Yes it’s true! I recently interviewed a friend of mine, Kim Airs, who can orgasm just by thinking about it. She calls it “thinking outside”, pun intended, I’m sure. However, seriously, some doctors in a lab put her on an MRI machine just so they could observe her brain’s response during orgasm. Look, mom, no hands! They were in awe as they could see his brain light up just as he was reaching climax.
So Kim is just a freak of nature, right? In fact, she is not alone. Many women have mastered a technique known as energy breathing orgasm or fire breathing orgasm.
So how do I do it?
In Tantra practice, people use the flow of energy in the body to achieve heightened states of arousal. They do this by using their breath and channeling energy through their Chakras.
The chakras are wheel-shaped spirals of energy or “centers of force” that rotate from the central points of the body, which are receptive to the transmission of energies. The body has seven chakras, which start at the base of the spine and work their way up through the head. along the spine.
You can control the flow of energy throughout your body to experience energetic orgasms throughout your body. An energetic orgasm can be very powerful or quite subtle, depending on how much energy you accumulate. The more energy you accumulate, the stronger the sensations you will receive.
Annie Sprinkle describes the experience of an energetic orgasm as “electricity fired throughout your body” leaving you “euphoric and giddy.” Energetic orgasms can help a woman to become more orgasmic and multi-orgasmic.
How to do the fire breathing orgasm technique
Begin by lying down in a comfortable position with your knees bent. Breathe in deeply and easily, letting the tension slip away. Empty your mind.
Once you have established a deep, rhythmic breathing, continue to deepen your breath by inhaling through your nose and exhaling through your mouth. Allow your breathing to become continuous, using the circular breathing method, in which you do not stop between inhales and exhales.
As you inhale, rock your pelvis by arching your lower back. As you exhale, push your pelvis and hips toward the ceiling while flattening your belly. Squeeze your PC muscle as you exhale, then release as you inhale to stimulate your clitoris and G-spot, while pumping sexual energy throughout your body. Repeat continuously, allowing you to feel erotic as your legs open and close loosely and naturally.
“Energy follows thought”, so as you breathe deeply, imagine that you are drawing energy from “the earth / atmosphere” into your sexual center represented by the lower Chakra: the genitals. Imagine the energy building a strong glow in the sexual organs that turns into a warm fire.
Next, start drawing that erotic fire in the 2nd Chakra, which is the navel. Think of your spine as a conduit to direct that energy through your body. Feel the energy build up in your belly button until it also begins to glow. Imagine the energy traveling from your genitals to your belly button and vice versa in a complete circular circuit. Once you have stabilized the flow, bring the energy to your third chakra, the solar plexus, and back to your groin, turning that energy into a glowing fire. Continue up the body / spine to the next 4th Chakra, the heart, circulating the energy from the belly to the heart. Continue breathing, rocking your pelvis, and squeezing your PC muscle.
As you build up the energy and move it to the fifth chakra, the throat, allow the sexual sounds and moans to release from your throat. If the sounds do not come automatically, consciously make sounds while opening the energy in the throat. Continue to circulate up through the Chakras, until you feel the energy move towards the Third Eye or the Sixth Chakra. Rebuild this energy as before, allowing the energy to circulate from the throat to the third eye and vice versa.
Finally, continue to pull the energy up through your body until you reach your seventh and last Chakra, the skull, or the top of your head. Carries energy up through the genitals, through the body and spine, to the crown and back in a continuous cycle, expanding outward from the root center (the genitals) into one sphere, encompassing all your being, until you feel the energy skyrocket. from the top of your head like a fountain of water.
You may feel a floating sensation or feel your body engulfed by waves. Allow yourself to be shaken by these feelings until they dissipate. Do what’s natural: scream, moan, melt, laugh hysterically, float, and ride the waves of orgasm. Don’t worry if you don’t experience these feelings at first, as it may take more practice until you can achieve a full-body orgasm.
These may seem like difficult techniques, but you can achieve it and do it almost naturally with practice and visualization. Be patient and keep practicing. For some people this will be easy, while others may require years of practice until they can let go enough to release those energies. But if you really want to learn to “think” like Kim Airs, then the time it takes to master this technique will certainly be worth the wait.
Think about the possibilities: on the subway, public buses, carpooling. It would certainly make commuting to work that much more interesting!