Many continue to ask, what is a Stud? In my opinion, a stud is a complementary term that is used loosely to describe a group of sexy, empowered, confident and strong women. In short, a force of nature! A stallion is proud, fierce and passionate about all his convictions. She is determined, ambitious, motivated and must not be silenced! A stud is a smart and aggressive spiritual woman who is a male lesbian! A stud is a woman who defines strength, without allowing or affirming anyone else’s definition. She defines it! She is the personification! A stallion is the best choice, the cream of the crop and definitely the choice of sand!
Stallions are passionate and loving. They are compassionate and loving. Many studs want long-term relationships and marriage. There are even stallions who want to have and raise children! I think studs make great parents because they have a spectrum of talents, upbringing, and spirituality. Stallions are presented with a high sense of pride, exuding a natural beauty that no cosmetic can provide.
Many stallions are spiritual and adopt spiritual practices rather than organized religion. Many studs have adopted teachings from nondenominational churches, also from metaphysics, and even from Buddhism! Regarding the Biblical Scriptures, scholars have taken the position that the ancient text and the condemnation do not reflect our positive and loving lifestyle.
A stud would never wear clothes with ruffles, flowers, or polka dots! A stud would never wear ruffles; Polish your nails in bright, fun colors, or wear a push up bra. A stud would never wear pantyhose, stilettos, wear full makeup, or big, flashy jewelry. A stud would never wear sexy lingerie. Studs would never wear flowers in their hair or very tight clothing!
Some common names for female studs are butch, dom, boi, aggressive, drag king, stone butch, top, and the list goes on. All tacos are different. Some stallions are tomboys, who do not identify with anything feminine or feminine. There are also women considered smooth stallions who can have an androgynous appearance or personality. There are studs who are athletes, some have a hip hop style and others wear tailored Armani and Stacy Adams suits. Many of the studs are of bikers adorned with leather chaps and a cap, while others have a country western style.
When I was younger, I felt uncomfortable and misunderstood. It looked like a child! As adolescence wore off, I noticed that my style of dress intimidated and incited straight people. It made them feel uncomfortable. I didn’t have a problem with my appearance, but everyone else did! As I became a stallion, images of what was considered correct continually flooded my consciousness. Everywhere I went back to church, on television, and in all the magazines, female women were more accepted. The package I presented was not ideal. My aunt used to say, “A proper lady is supposed to look like this, sit and smile like that. A respectful woman should walk like this, act like this, and talk like this.” She had no interest in being a real lady! I just wanted to play basketball and update my Hot Wheels collection!
The challenges posed represent the people’s ideals, morals and their perception of God and biblical scriptures. What we represent goes beyond people’s borders. We make people think.
Many ask why stallions are so masculine, why are you so tough? Well, historically female / male studs have been systematically discriminated against, exiled from society and even murdered. In the 1950s, a masculine woman had to be tough for many reasons. First, he had to defend himself against the many horrors of being male in primitive American society. Male women provided for themselves, relying on no one for sustenance or survival. In essence, they did the same manual work as their male peers.
I think studs seem masculine to the outside world because the world cannot relate. Stallions feel a certain sense of strength and pride in expressing their true nature. Stallions are often criticized by society for trying to look like a man. The fact is, studs want to look like men. Stallions want to be comfortable. They want to see how they feel emotionally or spiritually.
The masculinity of a stallion is broad spectrum. Did you know that many female Olympians have been disqualified for not being genetically female? My dear friend Marie is phenotypically female, but genetically male! Marie is not only hormonally and chemically masculine, she also has masculine attributes! According to Marie’s doctors, Marie was born with the natural overproduction of the male hormone testosterone. It has little or no production of female hormones. So I ask, are stallions unfairly discriminated against because they can have more male chromosomes or are born with excessive testosterone production?
In Western society, every birth is expected to be conceived with XY or XX chromosomes. Usually those with XY or XX chromosomes will develop into male or female. They have external and internal organs that are clearly distinguished. Therefore, those who are born XY or XX will naturally be attracted to the opposite sex. This is often not the case when a girl is born with male chromosomes and hormones!
Another fact is that hormones trigger nature or aggression. Genetically, many girls are exposed to the male androgen (sex hormone) called congenital adrenal hyperplasia, or CAH. Girls exposed to the male hormone grow up looking and acting like boys. These boys are initially called tomboys because they exhibit a rough or masculine nature. They are athletic, muscular, masculine, and much more aggressive than women born without the male hormone. Rather than being drawn to toys, clothes, or activities that are female, they are the opposite. The male androgen influences your likes, dislikes, and orientation. Many studs / lesbians grow facial hair and their voice deepens during adolescence! Ultimately, all of your behaviors are controlled by this hormone! Some of these traits are all stud / butch characteristics.
The best way to understand the magnitude of this information is that sex and gender are two different things. They have nothing to do with sexual deviance. Stallions / lesbians don’t try to be men!
Of course, conservatives want this scientific information to remain hidden so that we can remain permanent targets of biased laws, violence, and discrimination.
Again, I think it is ridiculous to discriminate against anyone. Throughout history, the Bible has been used to discriminate against gay people. The fact is that the books of the Bible were written in a prescientific age. The authors of the numerous books were unaware of sexual minorities, chromosomes, DNA, or women that produce testosterone. They didn’t have the technology to determine the real facts about the other sexes and the chromosomal variations we are born into.
Like society, our community is extremely diverse; There are many types of stallions from various origins, from all cultures and religions. Some cultures welcome lesbian women, most do not. Many cultures like ours have been taught to oppress anything that is different or that they do not understand.
One of the biggest problems in the gay and lesbian community is homophobia. Homophobia is born out of biblical and religious ignorance that fuels the pain that studs struggle with on a daily basis. This virus causes a lack of visibility, a feeling of helplessness and negative media stereotypes. Due to this ignorance, it is believed that all studs hate men. Stallions want to be or imitate a man. Stallions think they are male, therefore they have a mental illness! Stallions are the abomination! All bulls are abusive, womanizing and disease carriers! All of these myths arose out of fear, ignorance, and biblical bigotry.
The solution to eliminate these negative aspects is to provide people with positive information that reflects our image, our politics, struggles and triumphs.
The biased and one-sided laws of this land, and all that governs it, have only quenched and strengthened STUDY our spirits!
Of course, church, school, medical center, Uncle Leroy, and Grandma require any masculine woman to be feminine and visually pleasing to her eyes. We are expected to be soft, passive, demure, and aesthetically pleasing to everyone outside of us. But that is not our reality. I refused to ignore my true self. I’ve been tagged with all sorts of things like dam and bull dagger. Through all of that, I accepted my diversity and my differences with others. I have a clear understanding and acceptance of who I am and who we are.
My prayer is that masculine women start a revolution, a massive movement towards widespread visibility! The visibility of masculine women and the passion behind it are way overdue!
Female studs are a force with unlimited potential and power. I feel that it is imperative to dispel stereotypes and myths. We must empower ourselves and not allow anyone or the thought process to control us. All women strive for acceptance, love and self-affirmation, but for us it is different. We’re different.
This country is ALWAYS talking about community and unity. It doesn’t matter if the person is a tough stud with fifty tattoos, hip hop gear, or a shiny new helicopter. We are a strong and safe nation. It is time for us to rise up and accept who we are below the surface.
What the world should know is that God / Spirit has never created anything outside of himself! Never. Everything we can see and touch comes from a single source! God does not judge, hate or kill. God is not homophobic, discriminatory, or sexist. God would never use a spiritual text to marginalize his own creation. God does not love with conditions, nor is He divided into compartments.
“There is nothing more powerful than an idea whose time has come”
Dr. Martin Luther King