Be patient and know that if you continue to give off good signs, you may find a good man… -Bryan Cohen
Online websites can be great places to find a high-quality man, as long as you know how to go about it. If you’re not meeting the kind of men you’re interested in online, it may be time to give your profile a makeover. You want it to be irresistible to the right man!
While you should be vigilant about your online safety, there are plenty of single men ready for a relationship who are smart, professional, and interesting. These men want to find the woman of their dreams and turn to online marriage websites because they lead busy lives. However, to pique their interest and grab their attention, you need to be able to attract them with a desirable profile.
The first step to creating a great profile is to feel confident from within. So, give yourself credit for your divine feminine attributes and gifts, get excited about the possibilities and be inspired. While the decision about who you marry is an important one, love and romance are supposed to be fun!
Start by choosing a smart screen name and posting a flattering profile picture. It is the best way to stand out from the crowd and capture their interest. If a guy likes your photo, he’s likely to check out your entire profile. A current photograph of you, smiling naturally, is the best way to attract men. Instead of just describing your personality in mother words, show it off with additional photos that highlight your interests, hobbies, and activities. For example, if you love to travel, include a snapshot of yourself from your recent trip to Paris. Many people attract other animal lovers by posting a photo with their pet. Carefully select the images you choose to represent yourself. Posting intriguing photos of yourself is the first key to finding the perfect man online.
Your profile should be brief, but every word matters, so choose wisely. start with a interesting question or statement to grab their attention. Just like an article title captures their interest, you want your opening line to capture theirs.
Be sure to describe yourself and your life in positive and happy terms. When a man looks at your profile he will be wondering what his life with you would be like. You want to paint a vision of not only what your life is like now, but also what you imagine your life would be like with the man of your dreams. Help him visualize how wonderful life with you would be by describing some of the wonderful things the two of you would do together. Use language that lets a man know that he would be appreciated, admired, and respected in a relationship.
Be specific about what you want in a man in terms of his character and principles, but if possible, be open to men who may not look exactly how you imagined them to be. Remember that some men are diamonds in the rough. Often some of the best men are not the smoothest or most experienced and may need a little kindness and encouragement from you. Exposing yourself online can also scare men. They worry about being rejected and belittled just like women.
Finally, always remember that this is not heart surgery. So you can safely experiment with your profile and learn from the experience as you interact with potential partners. There is a high quality eligible man who would love to find someone like you; just make sure his profile gives you the best chance of attracting him.