A guy who won’t return your phone calls: does that mean he’s busy or playing hard to get? Men are used to the chase, but when the tables are turned and women get a dose of their own medicine, how should they handle it?
Do not give up.
Test his resolve by making him wait for your phone call instead of the other way around. So do you feel like he has been ignoring you for the past few days? Don’t worry. If he is really attracted to you, he will not be able to resist the urge to contact you.
Send him a short text.
If you just want to test if you still have a chance with him, try sending him a text. His answer would pretty much sum up what you expect as an answer. If he responds right away, it just means he’s very interested. If he wouldn’t even bother to text, then you know what that means!
Show him that you are busy.
Wouldn’t it throw him off if he sees you hanging out with your friends the same night he went out to a movie with his friends? This would make him think that you are living your life and his hard-to-get scheme isn’t working out at all.
Play your game.
When he doesn’t call, don’t spend all day waiting. Instead, spend your time on worthwhile things. And when he finally calls you, let his first phone call go directly to your voicemail. This should drive him crazy!
He is the Ice Prince, so speak to his heart.
A guy who plays hard to get can seem cold and uncaring. He is not fooled. If you are really interested in him, play the role of the great detective. So he won’t talk? Then it’s time to fish out the details without seeming too nosy. In order for him to pay attention to you, you need to be an intelligent conversationalist.
Never appear too eager.
Show him that you are a little interested in him. Also let him see that you still talk to other men and that you actually enjoy the company of other people.
Analyze his flirting cues.
If a guy isn’t contacting you or seems disinterested, it’s time to take a look at his more subtle cues. Does he often look in your direction? Or does he touch you more often than necessary? If so, he’s quite into it and it’s up to you to use your girly powers to trap him for good.