Breaking up with your boyfriend can leave you restless and constantly wondering how to get your ex boyfriend back. The events that led to his breakup are unique and unlike anyone else’s; there are still things you can do that are beneficial to healing all breakups no matter the circumstances.
Be nice.
Don’t be one of those girls who think that picking on your ex boyfriend is the best way to get him back, it’s not. Behaving in an annoying way will only make him feel grateful that he is no longer with you. If you make encounters awkward by teasing, nagging, and blaming, he will begin to avoid contact with you altogether.
And if you’re working on getting your ex boyfriend back, pushing him further by being annoying is counterintuitive. Instead, be as friendly as possible whenever you meet. If you have to pretend to be nice, then you probably don’t belong together anyway.
One of the biggest mistakes girls make when trying to get their ex boyfriend back is pretending to be someone they are not just because they think their ex will like them better that way. If she is doing this or is tempted to try a new person, your relationship will simply deteriorate once again. If you can’t be yourself with your ex, then you need to find someone else.
By being friendly, both you and your ex will remember that any problems that occurred before the breakup are not so important now. A breakup can often show a couple how much they really need each other and how petty arguments from the past aren’t worth sacrificing the big picture.
Recognize that the past cannot be changed and by no means should you dwell on it, but at some point issues will need to be addressed. Let your ex know that you made mistakes and that you are willing to work to correct them in the future. He will come to the same conclusion, although it may take him a little longer to admit it.
In addition to being friendly, there are other tactics and situations that you can face; some can lead to total failure and others could benefit you enormously.
1. If my ex has a girlfriend, can I still get her back?
Compared to any other predicament, this will be the hardest to overcome. Your ex’s new girlfriend will make it difficult to spend time alone with him and her mind will be focused on the new relationship and not on you. He may be looking at you as a memory from the past and not as a person in his present. Acting friendly right now is one of the best and only things you can do. Try to show him how cool you are and make him start to miss how things used to be with you.
2. Can I cheat my ex boyfriend to come back with me?
Absolutely not: The answer is simple, but sticking to it can be difficult. No matter how small or insignificant the lie may seem, it always backfires later. And no matter how wonderful it feels to have him back now, in the long run your pain will only be worse when you lose him forever.
Will making him jealous help me get him back?
While it occasionally works, making your ex jealous right after a breakup usually makes them angry and feel insignificant that you’ve moved on too fast. If dating is the only thing that will make you happy again, go for it, but reconsider whether you want your ex back because you love him or because you don’t like being alone.
Going on a date just to make your ex jealous is not fair to anyone involved, especially the innocent guy who actually thinks you like him. Tricks like this are usually unsuccessful and immature. If you learn to be honest with yourself and with others, you will come across as genuine and have a much better chance of getting your ex back.
Following this advice will be a good start in getting your ex back. Of course, getting your ex back is not simple, but it can be done with common sense, common courtesy, and a true desire to be with him.