Breaking up is hard and missing your ex boyfriend is even harder. Sometimes we break down in a moment of anger and are unable to realize the consequences of our actions. We feel sorry after making some horrible mistakes and then feel like we want to get back to our loved ones.
Our loved ones began to hate us for the mistake we had made. What should we do in this case?
“I love my ex but he hates me” is a tricky situation to handle. On the one hand, some people say that hate is the other side of love. If you didn’t break your ex’s heart then he won’t hate you. But on the other hand you are not so sure that your ex boyfriend hates you. How can you be sure of something that is buried deep in the heart?
Anyway, if you can’t get over your ex then you have to test your chances of getting back together with him.
The first thing you have to do to reconcile with your ex is to eliminate the reasons that led to the breakup. If something went wrong in our life, the first thing we do is find the root cause and eliminate it. Ask yourself and be honest, after finding the right answers try to fix yourself from the inside.
On the other hand, you also need to find the things that led to your connection from the very beginning. Find out why she loved you and what attracted her to you in the first place. Try to recover what you have lost from the moment he admired you until the breakup. You will revive your life and enrich your experience.
Do not stand still in front of the breaking wind. Try to fill the void in your emotional life with new, interesting, and fun activities. Restore your social life and call old friends. Get noticed in your social circles and volunteer for a charitable cause.
Hate cannot be fought with hate. You can only fight hate with love. Smile at your ex, give him a word of support, support him in fact if he had any problems, ask about him, share good ideas and try to put a smile on his face. At last, if he connects you with good and sweet memories, the idea of him will be changed unconsciously. Instead of hating you, he will start to miss you and will miss all the feelings you bring him.