Men are already stressed when planning the perfect engagement. Choosing the perfect engagement rings and diamond is a big part of that panic. To add, the myths and rules that exist about engagement rings and diamonds enhance that level of uncharted territory. Let us help you navigate some of the rules that need to be removed to make it easier for men to shop.
Myth #1: You must spend 3 months of your salary
According to a report by Jewelers of America, many people still spend 3 months’ salary on an engagement ring. This rule began in the 1930s, when the De Beers diamond made it part of its marketing strategy. However, now the jeweler would claim that this is the rule. There is no right or wrong when it comes to the amount of money to spend. Make a practical decision about a ring you can afford, rather than exhausting your savings.
Myth #2: The bigger the better
Bigger is not always better when it comes to the size of a diamond. The rarity of the diamond comes directly from the cut. The cut is the science behind how the diamond sparkles and reflects in light. When a diamond is perfectly cut, the series of angles act like little mirrors and illuminate each other. The correct cut will make the diamond more attractive even if it is smaller in size.
Myth #3: The purchase must be a surprise
Tradition often values the man buying the ring and surprising his lady. However, there are great benefits to buying a ring together and communicating about the purchase. Studies show that conversations about styles, budget, and probability will benefit both men and women in the long run.
Myth #4: Yellow gold is outdated
Yellow gold has been the preferred choice for many generations. Some cultures today only wear yellow gold jewelry in preference to white gold. However, this does not make yellow gold go out of style. Combining a diamond with a yellow gold band can really make the piece of jewelry stand out and shine. The difference between yellow and white gold today is a personal preference.
Myth #5: You should always get the exact ring size
This is not necessary as the rings can be easily resized. As more and more couples are buying a ring together, this is happening less. However, if you want to surprise your girlfriend, knowing that you can change the size of the ring makes it less stressful. Another option would be to borrow one of her current rings and a jeweler can replicate the size.
We know how special it is to buy an engagement ring. Visit a professional jeweler who can help you select a one-of-a-kind diamond and engagement ring.