Sometimes we can’t help but feel bored or tired with what we’re doing in the bedroom and think about spicing things up a bit. At the same time, going to a sex shop and buying a sex toy can be a bit uncomfortable for a man or a woman. Put your fears to rest and try to realize that sex toys are healthy.
The truth about sex toys is that they are natural and healthy, and are used to enhance the experience of both partners, not just one. Taking that first step can be a bit of an uncomfortable experience, but it will definitely be worth it.
In case you’re not convinced yet, orgasms are good. These toys make your orgasms more intense, longer lasting and stronger than you ever imagined before. When you are in love with someone and have been with him for a long period of time, things inevitably get boring. Sex toys are an effective remedy for boredom, and by sharing new, daring and intimate experiences, you and your partner will become closer and reach new levels of intimacy in your love life. A lot of women have a hard time achieving orgasm without clitoral stimulation in addition to vaginal stimulation, and sex toys serve precisely that purpose. Men can struggle with premature ejaculation and maintaining an erection, and sex toys are a remedy. They are made to enhance the act of sex and take it to new heights, because doing so will bring you and your partner closer together.
Showing your partner that you are comfortable with sex toys will also demonstrate your openness to new ideas and your desire to please them. Rather than viewing sex toys as taboo and only for the most adventurous people, consider whether you would like your sexual experiences to be that much better.
Make sure to lubricate the anus and prostate area before any anal play. This is vital for pleasure. Any anal play shouldn’t be painful in any way.
These days there are specific sex toys that allow a man to make love and stimulate his prostration without the need for his partner to do anything. They work on the anal muscles by moving the sex toy to stimulate the prostate gland. The man who occupies the first positions is the one who works best.
Before starting any male g-spot stroke, it is important to relax the anal muscle ring. Most men and women have a lot of stress in this area. This should relax before any insertion into a male massage and for anal sex with a female.