If you want to learn how to get women into bed, you have to understand how important openers are. They certainly aren’t going to make or break the success you have at the end, but you do have to know how to open if you’re going to be able to access the rest of your pickup material. If you don’t open the interaction, who will? For the most part, it’s the guy’s job to open up the interaction and not the girl’s job. Sometimes, very rarely, a girl will approach you, but this is not the norm. So unless you want to wait a long, long time for one of these girls to approach you, it’s time to learn how to open up and conduct a conversation.
The whole goal of the opener is to lead to the conversation. Only in conversation can you use your attraction material and qualifying skills. So you don’t need to worry if your opening isn’t as good as the rest of your material because you can quickly get over it and move on to better things. Openers can be as simple as simply saying “hello” or as complicated as using a high-stakes humorous opener. High-stakes humorous openers are those where you actually insult some aspect of society in the hope of getting a laugh. Sometimes this works and sometimes it doesn’t, but when it does, the payoff is usually much greater than when you use a safer opener.
It’s best if you have multiple openers that you use regularly. This is because each situation calls for a different type of opener and you don’t want to use the wrong one and close before you can start a conversation. There are openers that you can use during the day and openers that are more effective at night. The difference in the two situations is that during the day, girls don’t expect to be flirted with, while at night they seek to socialize.
Openers are a key aspect of getting women into bed. Still, just having a few essentials in your back pocket that you can pull out if you see a girl you like can make all the difference in getting you the green light to strike up a conversation and get things rolling. Start with a great opening backed with good confidence and you can’t go wrong.